Letter To Upcoming Mothers, Episode 3.

Letter to upcoming Mothers 3

I have a story to tell!!!

I know you are eager to get married, you want to know how marriage, you want to wear that ring and show off that you are married but the question is, are you ready to bear the challenges? 

I know you love children, but can you care for them more than how your parents cared for you? 

Think wisely before you wear that ring, e ge why✊

Story continues.......

After nine months, I gave birth to a bouncing baby boy. I was happy and the father of my child was happy as well as his father and my friend. Let me remind you that my family do not know my whereabout.

My child was given the name "Oluwasoekunmidayo". The child was indeed a comforter, anytime I carry the child, I feel relieved and happy.  Do not forget that I am not a believer. I was still an unbeliever who does not know Christ at all, even, I never attended church programs because my mother showed us the way to church neither to Christ.

Unfortunately after 3 months, my baby gave up the ghost😭😭😭. It was a painful and sad thing that led to me almost taking sniper but I was resecued. The only thing that brought Joy to me, left just like that. 

Two months after the death of my child, I noticed the father of my child began to give some funny attitudes. I thought it was because of what happened until one day, the unexpected happened.😪😪😪

One day, Ola, who happens to be my friend brought an invitation that he brother was getting married the next month. Marriage me? to who?, when did he get engaged? I  have been really jilted!

I was later sent away from where I was living. My friend and his family concluded that I intentionally killed the baby and that was the excuse and what they concluded.

I had no savings 😪😪, where will I held too? Something dropped in my mind but could it be possible?, I will it w trial. The ideal was  to  beg my Boss at where I was learning my fashion designing to allow me stay for some time.

I went to my Boss's place to ask if she could allow me. At first, she insisted but later,  she agreed after telling her my predicaments.  I also told her I wanted to take a leave to find work doing, so that I can be okay. 

She told a friend of hers and got me a job and from there, I will be able to gather myself. 

Few days later, I got a  job at a petrol station with fifteen thousand naira pay. I made up my mind to do  a thrift to gather money for an house rent and  promote my handiwork as well. fortunately for me, I met a good Samaritan who got me a good sowing machine but, there is a but. What could the but be?

Dear upcoming Mothers, while you are still young, know whom Christ is so that you can show your children the way and they will not be destroyed. 

Teach your children to always speak up if anyone makes any sexual advances to them, teach them to say No to anyone who  wants to lure them into any sexual activities. 

Kindly anticipate for the next episode, thank you.

©️ Joy Adebimpe Bepo

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