Letter To Upcoming Mothers, Episode 8.

Letter To Upcoming Mothers 8

"Dear single brother, i know you have been praying and looking around for the a wife, I know your family members are pressurizing you to bring a wife home for them, I know you are growing old day by day and mummy is becoming inpatient with you but, I want to tell you today before you pick just anyone because of pressure. 

The best gift you can give your children as a man, is to provide for them someone they can be bold to call a mother that is the best mum, for them. Dear brother, while searching and looking for a woman, look for someone who can take good care of your kids, someone who will lead them alright, someone your children can emulate and be proud of, someone you can both fight those battles together, someone you can hold hands together when things are sweet and not, someone you can lean on, someone who you can confide with, someone who can support you, someone who can help you grow, someone who can cheer you up and stand behind you without disappointing you.

Do not get married or chose a lady based on the physical appearance alone. Physical appearance is good but please, look beyond the physical. The content inside a contain is what matters and useful to you, the container might be useful as well but it's content is why you went for it. Don't be too deceived by the packaging and rebranding alone.

Why I'm I saying this? Children emulates most things their mother does either positively or negatively with or without teaching them. Your children I a reflect of who you are. 

Before you say "I do" please check the background of yourself and your spouse, if there are some battles you need to fight before marriage, if there are curses that needs to be broken to secure the future if your unborn kids so that they don't fight the same battle you having been struggling with, pray them out, do research about your background, that is why courtship period should not be for fun alone but seriousness about your future. Break away from forces that might stand as obstacles for having a successful marriage".

All these were my mother's words. Why is she saying all this? After everything she has done? I do not believe her because I do not know where exactly she was driving at but she said I should exert patience and listen to her with rapt attention. Do not forget that I am still pregnant for my "good samaritan"

To be continued.

©️ Joy, Adebimpe Bepo.

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